How to make good decisions
Thursday, January 19th, 2006Talking to a friend recently, I mentioned this stuff below and he recommended I write down my thoughts. So here it is:
1 Corinthians 6 v 12
“Everything is permissible for me”, but not everything is beneficial. “Everything is permissible for me”, but I will not be mastered by anything.
1 Corinthians 6 v 10 v 23 + 24
“Everything is permissible”, but not everything is beneficial. “Everything is permissible”, but not everything is constructive. Nobody should seek his own good, but the good of others.
In Christ we are free, and free indeed! The freedom Christ brings is the freedom not to sin. We no longer are bound by sin and are able to live sinless lives. But we still have freedom of choice and can still choose between right and wrong and can choose to sin.
What Paul is saying here is that in Christ, everything is permissible. We can do anything we want - but…
A Christian life should be lived to please God, and Paul gives some great guidance here in how we can make better decisions to please God more.
In making a decision, we must decide if it will be beneficial. Beneficial: Producing or promoting a favourable result; advantageous.
Firstly, will it benefit for God and His Kingdom?
Secondly, will it benefit those around us (both Christian and not-yet-Christian)?
Lastly, will it benefit oneself?
Paul then warns that we must make sure that whatever we are thinking of doing does not master us. If you MUST do this or you MUST have that, then that thing is mastering you. We must not become enslaved by anything √? tobacco, sex, food, gossip, highs, etc. - because we should only have one master √? Jesus. Being enslaved by something also takes away much of your decision to choose whether to do it or not so you can no longer choose to do the right thing.
The next thing to bear in mind is whether it will be a constructive thing to do. This is quite similar to the beneficial question, so I think a more useful and accurate term for what Paul is getting at is “helpful”.
Firstly, will it help God and His Kingdom?
Secondly, will it help those around us (both Christian and not-yet-Christian)?
Lastly, will it help oneself?
Nobody should seek his own good, but the good of others. If we did this with every decision, then we will already be making good decisions!
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